5 months and date night

So I wanted to update about shit but most of it involves Lou and I wanted to try and keep my blog balanced and it's literally like 80% mushy shit. So I'm just gonna do a read more for all Lou posts or long posts because ugh gross.

So last weekend, or two weekends ago (I'm covering the weekly highlights) I convinced Lou to go to see a scary movie with me in theaters. We went to Insidious 2. It was absolutely great. I know Louis hates scary movies but I've been warming him up to them and I think he's getting used to them because I looooooooove scary movies and he's making an effort so we can spend time together.

Here we are in the taco bell line being fatty butts and sneaking burritos into the theater. *breaks diet*

eeee look @ yonsei hoodie *screams internally*

So when we were in the theater he literally went into a little ball and hid under his cardigan and it was cute. He got through it really well and I think overall only a few parts scared him. By the end of the movie he was sitting up straight and not flinching at dead people, just sort of staring at them like "really." So I'm proud he made it through. We're watching 1 scary movie for every night of October. So Paranomal Activity, both insidious movies and some korean horror films are already crossed off the list, only 20something left!

I have to mention we were 100% on hiatus at this time where we took a break from doing any romantic stuff (like smoochin' and calling each other sweet things) at my request so I could figure out where I wanted to go with life and whether our relationship would continue considering my future endeavors and plans. During hiatus time it was really hard for both of us, but we really tried and eventually just hanging out without the romance made us realize how close we were as platonic friends too. There was no pressure when we hung out and we just had a lot of fun so slowly we're getting back to normal and making sure we reevaluate ourselves and our relationship so it stays healthy.

Anyway, he finally got his passport papers and still needs to fill them out so he can travel abroad with me, which we decided was going to happen. I'm happy he'll be with me when I travel.

After the movie we played animal crossing for about 2 hours.

One thing I hadn't mentioned was that we decorated our room. I say "our" now because I'm at his house a lot as I am slowly transitioning out of my house. He also is the one who calls it our home so I jumped on the bandwagon. My "home" back in MA is referred to as "that house." But I'll discuss that later.

You can't tell but those are mini ghost shaped lights and they have faces on them.

Orange lights around the ceiling. We still need more to cover the rest of the room.

Lou playing AC and our halloween paper crafts on the right wall.

So skip ahead and whatddyakno it's time for grocery shopping for the house. We didn't have food so we got a ton of deli meats and halloween cookies and bagels and such and it was the first time I think we did a huge grocery trip in a long time. But I mainly wanted to post about how slouchy Lou gets when talking to people like so:

I think it's an unknown habit but he shrinks sometimes to get on people's levels LOL

(Lou don't hate me for posting a messy hair picture)

Also he got into a 5 minute conversation about Gameboys with these two cashier dudes and I was just back here like omg nerds while secretly correcting the spanish one of the gameboy color comment he made.

In downpour. The rain literally waited for us.

So recently we also started Amnesia and I got Lou to play and I think he's upset at me for it but I'm sorry I can't play alone.

He sat like that the whole time.

We made pumpking cookies too, look how cute the little dough thingies are!

10 minutes later

Half burned derp cookies.

We tried.

Anyway last picture before I go on a rant about other stuff.

Lou sent me this today and I thought it was really cute. 

He's so skinny but his hair is so long and poofy lately that it makes his head look bigger hehehe

It's for his transformation tuesday comparison to his prom photo. Love the bowtie.

Okay, so the 8th of October marked 5 months of dating Lou and it's weird because it feels longer and it feels shorter at the same time. But we made our cookies and decided to break hiatus for a bit so we could at least talk about a few things together. It wasn't a big deal, more like another day. But I guess Lou is really into half year/year things so he wants six months to be a little more nice I think.

Overall it's was a good week.

Also on a side note, Thursday-Friday was a great day because I am no longer being stalked or harassed online at all. It's finally fucking over and I am so happy. It feels good to win, and like any situation - if I haven't won, then it's clearly not over. But I think this time it's over because if it isn't, I have a great case going for me.